“Do teens regret their social media use?”

The blogger in me is surprised and delighted by #3.

“So how did social media regrets hold up? Out of 20 possible regrets, too much time on social media ranked 13th. The top regrets were 1.) not sticking up for oneself, 2.) being too self-conscious, 3.) not documenting memories, 4.) not learning practical life skills and 5.) not getting help with mental health. Girls were slightly more likely to regret time on social media than boys.”

— From a new study by Irish researcher Eoin Whelan 

When Did Social Media Begin?

In the twenty-three years I’ve been maintaining this blog more than 800 posts wound up in the INTERNET category, making said category almost useless. And do I make SOCIAL MEDIA a tag, or a sub-category under INTERNET? To sort this out I am reviewing each of those 800+ posts. During today’s lunch break I asked GPT 4o when SOCIAL MEDIA became a thing.


While it’s impossible to pinpoint an exact starting point, social media as a component of the Internet has evolved over time. It depends on how you define it—whether as any form of online interaction or as modern profile-based networks. Here are some key milestones:

1. 1970s–1980s: Early Bulletin Board Systems (BBS) and Usenet

  • BBSs (1978): Allowed users to post messages, share files, and engage in discussions.
  • Usenet (1980): Functioned like a decentralized forum, organizing discussions into topic-based newsgroups.

2. 1990s: The Web and Early Social Networks

  • AOL, CompuServe, Prodigy (late 1980s–90s): Introduced chat rooms, forums, and member profiles.
  • GeoCities (1994): Gave users personal webpages in themed “neighborhoods.”
  • Classmates.com (1995) & SixDegrees.com (1997): Often cited as the first modern social networks, with SixDegrees offering profiles, friend lists, and messaging.

3. 2000s: The Boom of Modern Social Media

  • Friendster (2002), MySpace (2003), LinkedIn (2003), Facebook (2004): Refined the model, with Facebook becoming dominant.
  • Blogs, LiveJournal, Twitter (2006): Expanded social networking beyond direct connections, introducing microblogging.

Conclusion: The “beginning” of social media depends on the criteria:

  • If looking for early online social interaction, BBS and Usenet were the start.
  • If considering profile-based networks, SixDegrees.com is a strong candidate.
  • If marking the moment social media became an Internet-defining force, the mid-2000s explosion with Facebook and Twitter is key.

I remember the modem screech that connected me to my first BBS. Posting to a Usenet group. My first CompuServe email address. And all that followed. Here on smays.com SOCIAL MEDIA started getting some ink in the mid-2000s.

Can AI fix social media?

The social media platform Tik Tok is owned by a Chinese company which sucks up all kinds of data on the 108 million users in the U.S. and turns that over to the Chinese government. Not good. Looks like the company will be shut down or sold but isn’t this shutting the stable doors after the horses have bolted? I mean, the Chinese already have all that data. For clarification I had what turned out to be an interesting conversation with ChatGPT (below). I was particularly interested in how AI might be used to bring some order to the social media chaos. (near the bottom of this post)


ChatGPT: Steve-your point is valid and raises a crucial question about the effectiveness of such measures. If TikTok (or its parent company, ByteDance) has already collected significant amounts of user data, simply forcing it to sell or shut down wouldn’t erase the data that may already be in the hands of the Chinese government. The concern is more about future data collection and the ongoing influence the platform might have if it remains under Chinese ownership.

Here’s a bit more nuance to the issue:

1. Prevention of Future Data Harvesting. Even if past data is compromised, forcing TikTok to sell or shut down would prevent ByteDance (and by extension, the Chinese government) from continuing to gather new data from millions of users in the future. This could limit their ability to refine data-driven operations, like AI training or behavioral analysis, over time.
2. Limiting Influence and Control. Beyond data collection, there are concerns about the potential for Chinese government influence over TikTok’s algorithm. Critics worry it could be used to subtly promote or suppress narratives, potentially influencing public opinion or spreading propaganda.
3. Symbolic and Strategic Messaging. Forcing a sale or shutdown sends a strong geopolitical message. It demonstrates the U.S. government’s stance on data privacy and its willingness to confront perceived security threats. Even if the immediate impact on previously gathered data is negligible, it’s a statement of policy and a deterrent for future similar cases.
4. Possibility of Data Destruction. While it’s difficult to ensure, part of the negotiation in a sale could include terms requiring the deletion of previously collected U.S. user data from ByteDance’s systems. Although enforcement and verification are challenges, this could at least mitigate some concerns.
5. Control of the Platform’s Operations. A U.S.-based company owning TikTok would theoretically align the platform with domestic laws and regulations regarding data security and transparency. This could provide some assurance that user data is not being improperly accessed or exploited. The critique you hint at-that the damage might already be done-is one that many share. However, the push to force a sale or shutdown is more about stopping ongoing risks and asserting control over future vulnerabilities. What’s your take-are these efforts worth pursuing, or do they feel more like performative actions?
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Steve: I’m not a fan of big social media platforms like FaceBook, X, et al. I’d like to see them all regulated.

ChatGPT: I get where you’re coming from, Steve. Social media platforms have become incredibly powerful, often operating with minimal oversight despite their outsized influence on society. The issues with platforms like Facebook, X, and others span a wide spectrum: data privacy concerns, misinformation, polarizing algorithms, mental health impacts, and the monopolistic tendencies of Big Tech. Regulation feels overdue to many people. Here are a few ideas for how regulation could help rein in these giants:

1. Data Privacy and User Control

  • Platforms could be required to be more transparent about how they collect, store, and use data.
  • Users should have more control over their data, including the right to delete it permanently.
  • Strict limits could be placed on how much data can be shared with third parties.

2. Algorithmic Transparency

  • These companies should disclose how their algorithms work, particularly how they prioritize and amplify content.
  • Regulators could mandate algorithmic changes to reduce the spread of harmful content or prioritize user well-being over engagement metrics.

3. Content Moderation Standards

  • Clearer rules could be established to ensure consistency and fairness in content moderation.
  • Platforms might need to explain why specific content is removed or promoted, offering appeals processes.

4. Monopoly Busting

  • Breaking up tech monopolies might foster competition and innovation. For instance, separating Facebook, Instagram, and WhatsApp into independent companies could reduce one entity’s influence.
  • Limits could be placed on acquisitions, especially when they stifle competition.

5. Digital Addiction and Mental Health

  • Platforms could face restrictions on features designed to keep users scrolling (infinite scroll, autoplay, etc.).
  • Regular impact assessments on mental health, particularly for younger users, could become mandatory.

6. Combatting Disinformation

  • Companies might be held accountable for the spread of false or harmful information on their platforms.
  • Partnerships with trusted fact-checkers could be incentivized or required.

7. Revenue Transparency

  • Regulators could demand that companies disclose ad revenue sources and ensure they’re not profiting from harmful or illegal activities. Of course, implementing meaningful regulation won’t be easy. These companies wield immense political and economic power, and any attempt to regulate them risks being watered down by lobbying. But without regulation, the risks to privacy, democracy, and mental health continue to grow.

What’s your take on how realistic it is to get meaningful regulations in place? Do you think
governments will ever act decisively, or are they too entangled with these companies?
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Steve: Only after it’s too late. Hope I live to see LLM’s play a significant role in addressing such problems.

ChatGPT: I think you’re right, Steve-governments often seem to move at a glacial pace when it comes to addressing the complexities of modern technology. History is full of examples where decisive action came only after the damage was done. That said, the rise of AI, including large language models (LLMs), offers a sliver of hope for proactive solutions, provided we use them wisely.

Here’s how LLMs might play a role in tackling these challenges:

1. Enhanced Policy Development

  • LLMs could analyze massive datasets-social media trends, case studies, and global
    regulations-to recommend effective policies.
  • By simulating the impact of different regulatory approaches, they could help policymakers foresee unintended consequences and refine legislation before it’s enacted.

2. Monitoring and Enforcement

  • AI could monitor social media platforms in real-time for harmful content, misinformation, or violations of privacy laws.
  • LLMs could streamline enforcement, making it easier for regulators to identify bad actors and issue fines or corrective measures.

3. Empowering Individuals

  • Users could have AI-powered tools to track how their data is being used and even negotiate terms with platforms.
  • Personal AI assistants might act as mediators, advising users on how to minimize their exposure to manipulative algorithms or invasive practices.

4. Combating Disinformation

  • LLMs could play a major role in identifying and debunking false information at scale.
  • They could also assist in creating tools that help users discern credible information sources from dubious ones.

5. Promoting Algorithmic Transparency

  • AI systems could audit social media algorithms to ensure they comply with ethical guidelines or regulatory requirements.
  • LLMs might even help explain these algorithms to the public in plain language, increasing accountability.

6. Advocacy and Public Awareness

  • AI could empower grassroots movements by helping activists craft compelling campaigns, analyze public sentiment, and organize more effectively.
  • LLMs might also generate educational content to raise awareness about the risks posed by Big Tech monopolies and the importance of regulation. The big “if,” of course, is whether society chooses to prioritize using AI for the greater good instead of profit or power. If governments and corporations monopolize AI’s potential without meaningful oversight, it could exacerbate the very problems it’s capable of solving.

The optimist in me says we’re on the cusp of a major shift-one where tools like me could be instrumental in reshaping how power and influence are wielded in the digital age.

ChatGPT ‘splains Tik Tok

By the time Tik Tok became a Big Thing (around 2018?) I had abandoned social media with the exception of the occasional peak at Mastodon. One of the little video clips shows up as a Short in my YouTube stream so I have some idea what people post on Tik Tok but the appeal was a mystery. With Tik Tok getting so much attention these days, I asked ChatGPT to explain the appeal.


TikTok’s massive appeal, especially among younger generations, can be attributed to several unique features and cultural factors:

1. Short, Snackable Content – TikTok specializes in short videos, usually 15 seconds to 3 minutes long (though longer videos are now possible). This format caters perfectly to shorter attention spans and allows users to consume a lot of varied content in a short period.

2. Advanced Algorithm – TikTok’s “For You Page” (FYP) is powered by an incredibly advanced recommendation algorithm. It quickly learns what each user likes and serves up highly personalized, engaging content. Users don’t have to follow anyone to start seeing relevant and entertaining videos, making the platform instantly accessible.

3. Focus on Creativity and Trends – The platform encourages creativity through its easy-to-use editing tools, music library, and special effects. Challenges, trends, and viral memes are constantly evolving, giving users something to participate in and replicate. This fosters a sense of belonging and community.

4. Music Integration – Music is a key part of TikTok’s DNA. Many videos are based on popular songs or sounds, and the platform has even been instrumental in propelling lesser-known tracks to global fame. This seamless integration of music makes the content more dynamic and engaging.

5. Low Barrier to Entry – Creating content on TikTok is incredibly easy compared to platforms like YouTube, where production quality and long-form storytelling can be barriers. With TikTok, anyone with a smartphone can create something engaging in minutes, regardless of technical skill.

6. Viral Potential – TikTok offers a real chance for “ordinary” users to go viral. The algorithm doesn’t solely favor accounts with millions of followers, so even a first-time creator has a chance to reach a large audience. This democratization is hugely appealing.

7. Community and Subcultures – TikTok hosts an enormous variety of “niches” and subcultures, from dance and comedy to book recommendations (“BookTok”), cooking tutorials, and even educational content. No matter your interest, there’s likely a community for you.

8. Informal and Authentic Atmosphere – TikTok’s vibe is less polished and curated than platforms like Instagram. Users often appreciate its raw, humorous, and authentic feel, which makes it more relatable, especially to younger audiences.

9. Instant Gratification – The combination of short videos, an endless scroll, and algorithm-driven content creates an addictive loop of instant gratification. It’s easy to lose track of time because the content feels endless.

10. Social Validation and Engagement – TikTok’s culture encourages likes, comments, and duets (a feature that lets users build on others’ videos). This fosters interaction, collaboration, and a sense of validation for creators.

For younger generations, TikTok offers a dynamic mix of entertainment, connection, and self-expression that fits seamlessly into their fast-paced digital lives. Have you been tempted to check it out, or are you just curious about the buzz?

Virality

The terms “algorithmic engagement” and “organic search” pertain to how content is delivered and discovered online, each involving distinct mechanisms:

Algorithmic Engagement: This concept refers to the use of algorithms by platforms—such as social media networks, streaming services, and news aggregators—to curate and present content tailored to individual users. These algorithms analyze user behavior, preferences, and interactions to prioritize content that is likely to engage the user. For instance, Facebook’s News Feed and Twitter’s timeline utilize algorithms to display posts that align with a user’s interests, aiming to enhance engagement and time spent on the platform. This approach can lead to personalized experiences but may also result in echo chambers or filter bubbles, where users are predominantly exposed to content that reinforces their existing views.

Organic Search: In contrast, organic search involves users actively seeking information by entering queries into search engines like Google or Bing. The search engine then returns a list of results ranked based on relevance to the query, as determined by complex algorithms considering factors such as keyword usage, content quality, and website authority. These results are unpaid and are often referred to as “natural” or “organic” results. Websites can improve their visibility in these results through search engine optimization (SEO) practices, which aim to align content with the ranking criteria of search engines. Unlike algorithmic engagement, organic search is driven by user intent and provides a broader range of information sources, potentially offering a more diverse perspective.

In summary, while algorithmic engagement involves platforms proactively presenting content based on user behavior to maximize engagement, organic search is a user-initiated process where individuals seek out information, with search engines delivering results based on relevance to the query.

The term “viral,” in the context of content rapidly spreading online, began gaining traction in the late 1990s. By 1999, it was notably used in reference to marketing strategies that leveraged the internet’s capacity for swift information dissemination. This usage drew parallels to the rapid spread of biological viruses, highlighting how certain content could quickly propagate across digital platforms.

The phrase “went viral” became more prevalent in the early 2000s, coinciding with the rise of social media platforms and video-sharing sites like YouTube. These platforms facilitated the rapid sharing and widespread reach of content, leading to the common use of “viral” to describe popular online phenomena.